Finish Strong!

it ain't over til its over

I've done a lot in my 36 37 years on this earth, more than most people twice my age. I've been married, written porn, served in the US Air Force, been asked to perform in adult films, founded a nonprofit that worked with teen suicide prevention, survived a near-fatal hate crime, performed and recorded music professionally, removed those "Do Not Remove Under Penalty of Law" tags from my mattress, worked with terminal cancer patients and their families, eaten bugs for survival, saved lives, had dinner with more celebrities than many people can name, served as a child advocate in the family court system, watched 9/11 happen in person, had my heart broken and spent 3 months in a Buddhist monastery.

I've been described as energetic, moody, enthusiastic, sarcastic, loving, dedicated, insane, hard-working, loyal, forgiving, spiteful, psychotic, intelligent and even cute.

  • Love with your whole heart, but don't say it unless you mean it.

  • Live like you could be taking your last breath at any minute, because you could.

  • Go after what you want in life and don't stop until you get it. If you believe in something, don't take "No" for an answer.

  • When it comes to friends, lovers and underwear, quality is more important than quantity. Go for the ones who will stick with you and cover your ass when you need them most.